Being Thankful
I have really been thinking lately about things I am loving about my children. Being a mother is the hardest *job* I have ever had! It is difficult at times to remember to be grateful for my children and to always like them--for I will always love them. I don't know if life would be easier if they were farther apart in age, and have often wondered that, but at the end of the day this is our life, our family, and it isn't going to change. So I thought it would be fun for others, and important for me, to write a thankful post regarding my children.
I AM THANKFUL FOR....
rocking chairs. Months ago Phoebe started asking to be rocked before bed. Although she is not a baby anymore and doesn't really need it I know she enjoys it. I love that after a busy day of running around and being active she and I can sit in the dark, her head resting on me, and have our sweet, quiet moment together. Mmmmmm snuggles!
potty trained children. It is a whole lot cheaper than buying diapers and wipes, I don't get poop on my hands anymore, and it is less time consuming for me. Some people say I got them potty trained *early* (Phoebe was trained a month after her second birthday) because I think around 3 or just after is average. All I know is that it was perfect for our family.
kisses. A simple kiss or 2 can make pretty much any boo-boo better and can stop the tears. The girls give each other kisses which reassures me that they really do love one another. They also readily give mommy and daddy ones too. Just this morning Sophia climbed into our bed and promptly gave me kisses all over my face telling me "I am kissing you momma!"
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candy. I love candy very much, always have and probably always will. My girls love candy too, and we have spent time snuggling on the couch over a good Dr. Suess book and a bag of gummy bears. We also enjoy sharing Twizzler Pull-n-Peel and pretend they are worms, snakes, bracelets or necklaces. It is fun candy!
one on one time with my children. BJ and I have both had 'dates' with Sophia and will probably start them with Phoebe next year. The girls are so different when by themselves and can be so sweet. This special time lets them know they are unique to us and know that we have time for them and their interests.
cooperative play. When the girls play together with no fighting or hitting it once again reassures me that they love each other. It also proves to me that it was in fact a good thing to have them close in age so they can develop this blossoming friendship. Plus, Sophia is good at being an example to Phoebe about imaginative play.
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healthy appetites. This mostly applies to Sophia, but the older Phoebe gets the less picky she is becoming--Yay! I *almost* don't have to worry about what Sophia is going to eat. She is beginning to enjoy spicey things more or strange things. She actually licked a bite of octopus the other day. She tells me she "loves meat" and will ask me for broccoli or carrot sticks for a snack. She pretty much eats what we eat which makes some meal times a lot easier.
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their lovely faces. I love looking at them and admiring their eyes or faces. They truly are beautiful girls. I know this might make me sound like a proud or vain mom, but it is hard to forget how cute they are when everywhere we go I get compliments about their eyes or cuteness. I also enjoy the fact that my children resemble me. There are some families you can look at and think "Those kids belong to them?!" --they look nothing alike. When the 3 of us are together I often get comments about how they look like me or that there is "no doubt who they belong to!" I love looking at them and seeing in their faces that they are mine.
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communication. Both girls learned to speak and use more words (for their age at the time) than what is considered 'average'. I loved being able to communicate with them and now have conversations with them. They let me know what it is they need and I pretty much don't have any guesswork. Their clear communication has also made my life easier in some ways when dealing with them. And anything that can be made easier for a mom is a good thing!
unique voices. Phoebe is quite the entertainment for BJ and I and she doesn't even know it. She has this "accent" (for lack of a better description) that makes all sorts of words interesting. A sample: berks (books), goldfirsh, and beahrs is really all I can think of for now.
rough play, and children that enjoy it. I like running around the house pretending to be a monster, dinosaur or dragon while roaring and chasing the girls on foot or hands and knees. They run all over the place smiling and screaming. We also play hide and seek often, but it usually turns into just me hiding out really well and then popping out and scaring them. Once again, they are all smiles in the end.
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I AM THANKFUL FOR....
rocking chairs. Months ago Phoebe started asking to be rocked before bed. Although she is not a baby anymore and doesn't really need it I know she enjoys it. I love that after a busy day of running around and being active she and I can sit in the dark, her head resting on me, and have our sweet, quiet moment together. Mmmmmm snuggles!
potty trained children. It is a whole lot cheaper than buying diapers and wipes, I don't get poop on my hands anymore, and it is less time consuming for me. Some people say I got them potty trained *early* (Phoebe was trained a month after her second birthday) because I think around 3 or just after is average. All I know is that it was perfect for our family.
kisses. A simple kiss or 2 can make pretty much any boo-boo better and can stop the tears. The girls give each other kisses which reassures me that they really do love one another. They also readily give mommy and daddy ones too. Just this morning Sophia climbed into our bed and promptly gave me kisses all over my face telling me "I am kissing you momma!"
candy. I love candy very much, always have and probably always will. My girls love candy too, and we have spent time snuggling on the couch over a good Dr. Suess book and a bag of gummy bears. We also enjoy sharing Twizzler Pull-n-Peel and pretend they are worms, snakes, bracelets or necklaces. It is fun candy!
one on one time with my children. BJ and I have both had 'dates' with Sophia and will probably start them with Phoebe next year. The girls are so different when by themselves and can be so sweet. This special time lets them know they are unique to us and know that we have time for them and their interests.
cooperative play. When the girls play together with no fighting or hitting it once again reassures me that they love each other. It also proves to me that it was in fact a good thing to have them close in age so they can develop this blossoming friendship. Plus, Sophia is good at being an example to Phoebe about imaginative play.
healthy appetites. This mostly applies to Sophia, but the older Phoebe gets the less picky she is becoming--Yay! I *almost* don't have to worry about what Sophia is going to eat. She is beginning to enjoy spicey things more or strange things. She actually licked a bite of octopus the other day. She tells me she "loves meat" and will ask me for broccoli or carrot sticks for a snack. She pretty much eats what we eat which makes some meal times a lot easier.
their lovely faces. I love looking at them and admiring their eyes or faces. They truly are beautiful girls. I know this might make me sound like a proud or vain mom, but it is hard to forget how cute they are when everywhere we go I get compliments about their eyes or cuteness. I also enjoy the fact that my children resemble me. There are some families you can look at and think "Those kids belong to them?!" --they look nothing alike. When the 3 of us are together I often get comments about how they look like me or that there is "no doubt who they belong to!" I love looking at them and seeing in their faces that they are mine.
communication. Both girls learned to speak and use more words (for their age at the time) than what is considered 'average'. I loved being able to communicate with them and now have conversations with them. They let me know what it is they need and I pretty much don't have any guesswork. Their clear communication has also made my life easier in some ways when dealing with them. And anything that can be made easier for a mom is a good thing!
unique voices. Phoebe is quite the entertainment for BJ and I and she doesn't even know it. She has this "accent" (for lack of a better description) that makes all sorts of words interesting. A sample: berks (books), goldfirsh, and beahrs is really all I can think of for now.
rough play, and children that enjoy it. I like running around the house pretending to be a monster, dinosaur or dragon while roaring and chasing the girls on foot or hands and knees. They run all over the place smiling and screaming. We also play hide and seek often, but it usually turns into just me hiding out really well and then popping out and scaring them. Once again, they are all smiles in the end.
What a cute post. You have beautiful girls. I am glad that you enjoy them so much!
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